The honorable night of being named the Sweetheart of Sigma Chi is something that will forever hold a special place in my heart. As I looked wide-eyed around the room, taking in the moment of each guy singing me the sweetheart song, I became ecstatic over the idea that I now got to share letters with some of my best friends. The idea of representing the chapter of guys that I have fostered some of my most genuine friendships with throughout college felt ever significant. On that day, I would have told you that getting that privilege was surely the best part of the whole sweetheart experience. As I continue the experience of being sweetheart, however, I realize increasingly that being sweetheart is far more than owning my own set of Sigma Chi letters.
The men that I now have the great privilege of sharing
letters with are far more than just another group of friends to me. They are
some of the people that I have found myself with throughout my college
experience. Through trials that seemed like they would never end, nights full
of laughter, constant support, celebrating accomplishments, and a few too many
stupid decisions. We spent many moments together over the last four years; some
we claimed we would never forget and some we did not realize would stand as such
great memories. Being their sweetheart now means more than sharing letters- it
means growing through deeper, more authentic relationships within the family.
It means gaining opportunities to walk through life and share experiences with
even more of the brothers.
Of the many perks of being sweetheart, the greatest is the
gift of sharing the bond that Sigma Chi establishes with my biological little
brother, Nick. Growing up, we have always been one another’s biggest fans.
Throughout the many seasons of our life Nick has continuously and gracefully
taken on whatever burden I may carry, never allowing me to feel alone. Watching
Nick grow through Sigma Chi and now experiencing it together planted much more meaning
in our friendship. When life takes its toll on our family, we are assured in
our Sigma Chi family to turn to. Nick and I experience support from the same 90
people, only allowing us to grow closer. The sense of security that we experience
daily is just one of the ways that Sigma Chi has blessed my life. Although we
each have our differences and imperfections, the empathetic support we have for
another is what makes the bond that we share so undeniable. Looking back on
that special day almost makes me laugh at how little I knew about the beautiful
mess I was getting myself into.
Being the Sweetheart of Sigma Chi means a multitude of
things to me, with each day bringing new blessings. It means something as small
as knowing I always have someone to go to the library or grab some food with. It
means I even have someone to jump in a car last minute and drive down to
Florida with. It means finding joy day to day from how sweet each guy is to me.
And of course- it means always feeling loved, protected, and valued. The guys
bless my life daily through their support, their confidence in me, their ability
to turn just about anything into a laughing matter, and their continuous
goofiness. Recently, a sweetheart from 1976 reached out to me about The Zeta
Rho chapter of Sigma Chi. A smile beamed across my face as she told me a story
of how through the trails of her life, her brothers are still her support
system today. That is what being sweetheart means to me. Family, genuine
support, deeper love- where each day I am still amazed at how it just keeps
getting better.
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